Archive for January, 2009

Inaugural Predictions for the Future: What’s Yours?

On inauguration day, we invited a few friends over for a casual evening get together to watch the taped ceremony, with one small caveat: they had to share a prediction for the future – what the world will look like on Jan 20, 2010, 4 years from our evening together.

Predictions ranged from tongue-in-cheek to serious, but they included:

  • A baby in the White House – this one came up twice. Moms, are we asking for an even more family friendly First Family?
  • 8 years of Obama – there was a real certainty that this family will be re-elected whether or not the economy is on an upswing because of the media and general public’s growing adoration
  • Universal Healthcare – Both versions came up – that it will happen, and that he’ll fail trying, but the point came down to this: whether you think he’ll succeed or fail, healthcare is the next mortgage crisis and a seminal moment this administration faces
  • Rising costs and falling confidence – Some felt the market decline was not easily reversed and a bigger government was going to only exacerbate the problems facing the U.S. today

My own prediction wasn’t very well thought out (post too many slices of cake) but it went along the lines of this:

In times of distress, what has made America consistently great is not the reality on the ground, the structure and its malaise, but a grand, irrational defining vision

Put another way, whether or not U.S. GDP and debt reduces or increases, should Obama be able to uplift Americans to recreate a vision, (like a Man on the Moon, a Peace Corps, or the amazing power of the Internet), I believe he’ll again put Americans on the path to U.S. regeneration.

He certainly has the opportunity and has available great, defining goals such as health, wealth and environmentally friendly prosperity from which to pick.

I’m not of the camp that U.S. power is waning, never to rise again. A good book to read that expounds on a more balanced view of future U.S. influence is Fareed Zakaria’s  The Post American World. It’s central idea is the “rise of the rest,” but certainly not the fall of the U.S.

I believe a new age of potential U.S. power and influence is dawning. But this is a promise only realized if the human and intellectual energy of people – not just some, but most of the people – is harnessed. Human energy dissipated, is market decline and life’s labor lost. ALUMRISE as a company believes that people of all life stages, ages and experiences can contribute toward a more productive economy and society. That’s our simple vision.

Later this year, I’ll be working to release a long-held dream – a novella tenatively called “It’s All About MHE: Why Managing Human Energy Should be the New Imperative for Individuals, Companies and Countries.” ALUMRISE was conceptualized as a human energy solution, one of many that are today available or could be created to improve the lot of each of us individually, as well as improve our economic and social productivity and satisfaction.

Why I’m predicting better things for 2010? Because I think Obama gets human energy.

Let’s hope I’m not wrong.

What do you think?

From One Mom to Another: Some Non Traditional Tips For Finding Your Next Opportunity

I was asked recently by a local Dallas Moms Web site, started by a former coworker and Mompreneur, to share some tips on the challenge of finding a new opportunity or returning to work after a hiatus. Really got me thinking. Here’s what I had to say to the members of Moms Out Loud:

You’ve probably read or heard advice about returning to work, including resume tips, dress tips and interviewing guidelines. As someone who left the traditional workforce to raise a child and pursue a personal dream of creating a business for others like me, ALUMRISE — I found that much of the advice, while practical and helpful, didn’t completely meet the mark.

The advice often assumed certain things about me and others like me:

We are completely confident about our decision to return to the workforce. Now we just need to find a ‘job’

The portrait of the mother I often speak to via my role at ALUMRISE needs to find meaningful work to fit her life stage, but is continually re-evaluating. Some days, she’s ready to conquer the world. Others, she’s dealing with a sick child and an upside down house, and a job hunt is the furthest item from her mind. The concept of a ‘job’ is a difficult one for many moms. They are looking for meaningful work and residual income. But traditional jobs can often be a square peg in a round hole for the at-home mother.

My Tips:

  • Turn this potential drawback of daily indecision or re-evaluation into an opportunity. Find job sites or solutions that showcase a variety of both permanent and flexible opportunities and ad-hoc opportunities like completing tasks or doing short term projects
  • Don’t wait for the perfect “job” – seek opportunities that fit your day, week, or month. And do it now! Often, these can turn into the perfect long term position
  • If you find you struggle with balance, look for flexible positions, even if you trade off some pay or promotion opportunity
  • And do look at the type of work that suits your new situation – for example, working with a start up, or a small business, or in retail. A traditional corporate position could be financially rewarding but create personal stress in scheduling and workload, so be honest with your own limitations before starting a search

We are self confident and able to articulate our skills. We are thick skinned at parties and in social gatherings when eyes glaze over as we describe our former work and current job needs

What I’ve observed is that even the most self-confident mothers experience mood swings, self-recrimination and doubt, when they consider a return to the workforce. They react to the lack of interest or reinforcement and support from others, and take it to heart. Many retract and decide “work is not for them,” even though they are smart, intelligent, and strong contributors. It’s a self defense mechanism. So even while paying lip service to a job hunt, such a mother may be damaging her own chances by giving mixed messages about the consistency and belief in her own abilities to succeed in a job or a part time position.

My tips:

  • Find someone who is a personal fan and supports your intelligence and desire to find meaningful work. Look to them for advice and counsel. Don’t expect support from those who don’t know you and your strong experiences and ability to contribute
  • Keep your hunt targeted and close and do use online vehicles that can help promote you beyond your own social circle — members of your own circle may subconsciously only see you via the lens of mother or wife or daughter in law. Use sites especially those created for informal workforce members, like a Moms group, a flexible gigs site or a site like ALUMRISE designed for the non traditional workforce
  • It’s not easy to banish self-doubt but the greatest danger is to let good opportunities pass you by, by talking down your abilities or abilities when you do find someone interested in working with you. Be specific and factual about your goals, and ability to contribute. Don’t be apologetic!

We have a life plan and are working on it. Motherhood is a detour or hiatus but not the final goal

Most mothers drastically alter their perception of parenting, only after they have a first child. For some, it happens with a second. Suddenly, parenting as a “detour” from real life, is replaced by a growing realization that parenting is as much the business of life, as a paid position. Employers may find it hard to hear this message – and many moms are stuck trying to deliver a message that they need a firm balance between parental responsibilities and paid employment.

My tips:

  • Talk about the positives of parenthood as qualities for an employer. These are qualities such as your perseverance, your patience, your ability to work hard, and your ability to juggle tasks on a minute-by-minute basis
  • Talk about your own desire for a flexible position and be willing to discuss how that could benefit an employer, for example in a pay trade-off
  • Be honest about the role of parenting in your life. You may be surprised that your candor impresses an employer. After all, they may be juggling the same issues as you. Honesty is an important way to establish the right rules of engagement, increasing chances of success for both sides

Starting or compleCEO, ALUMRISE, Inc. ting a job hunt is hard, especially when you are torn between competing priorities. But if you start by addressing some upfront, personal barriers, the battle can be won.

Happy hunting Moms!

Aassia Haq is a midcareer mom who left the traditional workforce to start ALUMRISE. She currently serves as CEO of the business. The photo was taken in her garden, in between a business meeting and an infant meltdown. Unfortunately, she hasn’t had time to take a better photo yet.

2009: A Year of Opportunity

I’ve been reading and hearing a lot about a coming year of global gloom and doom.

Certainly, the business environment is sobering. Whether it’s unexpected loss of wealth due to greedy Madoff-style swindling, or a growing mistrust of the large and amorphous corporate bureaucracy with its many heads — or just the general steep decline in net worth, there’s cause for concern.

But in this post, I’m offering a personal point of view, with no certainty that this resonates for others, but a hope that it does. For me, 2009 is a year of opportunity. It’s the beginning of the rest of my life.

Probably because I’m somewhat familiar with adversity (who doesn’t fight at some point or another to achieve a goal), I believe that in times of struggle, it’s actually easier to define your own goals and desires and be more succinct, and more creative in how you realize them.

I’ve been thinking about what the word “opportunity” itself means. Does opportunity mean wealth, a new car, a private school? Or does it mean the right to do what one loves, on one’s own terms, at a fair trade-off price? Does opportunity mean a 9-to-9 job with a large corporation and a pension check? Or does it mean exciting, challenging assignments or positions that fit a changing personal lifestyle?

Does opportunity mean doing something completely irrational but wholly satisfying that ordinarily would be considered difficult and impractical, like starting a new venture? Or offering one’s services to unpaid goals like charitable or social projects just because of the deeper and more important satisfaction of the soul?

This year, I am excited by achieving goals that are personal and specific, not broad and social. And I wish the same for every ALUMRISER.

My advice when an opportunity knocks? Be specific in stating what you want. Be open to opportunities that fit your needs, even if they don’t seem like poster-board examples of success. And every day, do believe there’s new opportunity around the corner.

While all this is easier said than done if the worry is a paycheck or a mortgage payment, I believe 2009 offers the opportunity for all of us to be a year not of gloom and doom, but instead a year to grow personally and professionally in some new and exciting, unknown direction.

I hope this for all past, present and future ALUMRISERS. It’s 2009: Opportunity knocks.