ALUMRISE

This weekend, I got teased a bunch for being social. It made me realize, I’ve spent most of the year locked up in my office, along with our dedicated team, bringing ALUMRISE to life.

I missed lots of parties in 2008, because I was on the road. Didn’t get a chance to talk to my daughter about her precocious 4 year old views on life:

“Mama, You don’t have a good remembory,” she tsk-ed tsk-ed to me, the other day. “You forgot again to go to the bank. And then you forgot to go to the post office.”

How does a 4 year old have a better grasp on my task list than me?

For most of 2008, I woke up every night every time I heard a ping on my blackberry. The blackberry has been put on winter holidays early this year. 

The end of year is a great time to let loose and remind ourselves who we want to be associated with; and which affiliations, either professional or personal – matter to us the most. It’s also a great time to think about who we will choose to be most closely aligned with in 2009. In good times or bad, our affiliations speak for us – whether in business or in life. 

As an ALUMRISE team, we’re spending a whole lot of our holiday time this year talking about the power of connectors and groups. You will be excited to hear what is to come in 2009 that speaks to the true power of group-makers, and the power of real-time, dynamic groupings of talented individuals.

But just right now, I’m reminding myself to go be social. The holidays are coming early this year, and thank goodness they are, because 2009 is going to be a rollercoaster. Enjoy the time, and keep your valued friends and associates close. That’s what I’m doing.

Thanksgiving wasn’t solitary, but it was quiet. It got me thinking about the concept of doing something new, taking a new life path, or being forced into a new work life stage, which can naturally lead to solitude.

Here’s a few synonyms I found for describing solitude:

isolation, loneliness, singleness, solitariness, aloneness, desert, privacy, quarantine, remoteness, retirement, seclusion, wilderness

I wonder about how so many ALUMRISERS, current or future, must be feeling today, while hunting for their next opportunity or chance to be a contributor.

I was told by someone that nearly a quarter to a fifth of the U.S. workforce will move into a new position or be displaced in the next 18 months (when I figure out where this came from, I’ll annotate or correct the stat).

Today, there’s not just large-scale job cuts all around us, but also conscious decisions being made by many to enter new life stages that reduce stress, reassert control or forge a new path. 

Whether you’re entering retirement, feeling secluded at home with kids, or simply thrown out into the wilderness of a job hunt when you least expected it, there’s a chance you are experiencing or struggling against solitude, though I hope you are not.

Fellow ALUMRISERS - what about creating a new and more meaningful word to describe the stage you are in? – Quietude.  

Quietude replaces the threat and implication of solitude with a conscious, deliberate state of mind that can only be reached properly in quiet times, guided not by what is missing, but by what is possible. What fits, and what you are uniquely suited for. What you both will and want to pursue. 

Early holiday wish: this season, find quietude.